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What better way to end the chaos of summer than a messy party? To celebrate Robert and his friends heading to preschool, I set up a Dress for a Mess Party. A friend of mine set up a party like this for middle and high schoolers and I knew I had to do one of my own. Clean up was a breeze with all® free clear detergent. Click here to learn more and enter for a chance to win a free year of all® free clear!
Preschoolers are the best kids to do this with because they are unceasingly messy. Plus there are so many fun messy preschooler activities. By now, you probably know that I love all the messy stuff like play dough, painting and sensory activities. I do this kind of stuff with my kids all the time and then curse myself afterwards for naively thinking they wouldn’t make a mess.
I had so much fun at this party that I decided to put together a tutorial so you can do this too .
How to put together a dress for a mess party
Step 1: don’t clean
To prep for this party, I did absolutely no cleaning. I have to say that not cleaning before entertaining is an exhilarating feeling. I kept feeling like I was breaking a hostess rule!
Step 2: gather supplies
Another way I made prep for this party simple was to use up all the odds and ends from my arts and crafts supply. This saved me a lot of money! I always love throwing a party on a budget. Preschoolers are great party guests because they don’t judge your party decor, spread, or theme. They go with the flow.
I like to think the kids had a blast doing all sorts of messy things. While I love to do this kind of stuff with my kids, I almost never do stuff like this in large groups because masses of kids with paint seems like a bad idea, right? Somehow we managed to contain the messes. I’m still amazed that paint didn’t end up all over the walls.
Step 3: set up stations
I set up the party with different stations. We had an arts and crafts station,
a chalk station,
a boba pearl sensory station,
a moon sand station,
and a play dough station.
All of the stations were a hit, but the moon sand station almost gave me a heart attack. It’s too messy even for me. You make it by combining 1/2 cup of oil with 4 cups of flour. Since we had it outside it ended up mixing with water and becoming a huge slippery mess. I had to throw it out shortly after the party started!
The play dough was a hit though! I couldn’t believe how much the kids loved it. Here’s my tried and true recipe for making play dough.
Ingredients
- 2 C. all purpose flour
- 1 C. salt
- 2 Tbsp. cream of tartar
- 3 Tbsp. oil (I prefer coconut)
- 1 1/2 C. water
- food coloring
Instructions
- Combine all ingredients except for the water in a bowl. Boil the water (add food coloring if you want it colored). Add the boiling water to the other ingredients and mix with your hands. It will be sticky! If it's too sticky ass more cream of tartar until it is the consistency you desire. Humidity has a lot to do with how much cream of tartar and flour you need.

Step 4: set up an messy spread of food
You can’t have a messy party without messy food right? That’s why I served the ultimate messy food spread: watermelon, strawberry popsicles, and chocolate pudding.
The kids loved making a mess with the food. Please don’t judge me when I tell you that I still have a huge mess in my backyard from all the food. We’ve got little popsicle juice spots all over the pavers in the backyard!
Step 5: clean up
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Check out this huge pile of laundry I had to clean once the party was over. We certainly made our way through a lot of towels during clean up!
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This is such a great way to get outside and have fun! So important to let kids be kids – making messes is part of it! #client
Thanks! Making messes really is a lot of fun!
I absolutely love this idea! What an awesome way to get everyone together and not have to worry about making a mess. #lifelovinglinkie
Right! Although, I think some of the moms were worried about the mess. Lol!
This is an awesome idea! My 2 year old would have a blast doing this.
I bet! It’s the perfect age to be messy!
So many fun, wonderful ideas! Can we come to your house?! lol
Lol! As long as you do the clean up!
What a fun idea. I can see why the kids loved it. Their one chance to make mess.
Sally @ Life Loving
#LifeLovingLInkie
Thanks! Making a mess is so much fun!